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　　一场意外事故，让他在13岁时失去了双臂。如今他却能独自做饭、洗衣、带娃……

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　这位辽宁铁岭昌图的无臂男子汉，靠着坚强的意志，不仅学会了生活自理，还照顾着九个月大的儿子，被身边人称赞“最强爸爸”！

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无臂爸爸用脚给儿子洗澡

　　“我媳妇父亲生病了，需要她回娘家照顾。”媳妇不在家，照顾孩子就成了王刚一个人的事儿。

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　　“儿子，爸爸给你搓搓后背，你要听话。”7月8日，王刚一边跟儿子说话，一边用脚夹起一条毛巾，在儿子全身上下擦了个遍。

　　33岁的王刚没有双臂，但双脚很灵活，能独自照顾孩子，每样活都会干。

　　王刚的儿子今年九个半月大，最近天气特别热，每天都需要洗澡。这并没难倒失去双臂的王刚。



　　只见他先用脚把一个大塑料盆夹到地中央放好，然后再用脚夹着水瓢往盆里舀水，看着爸爸放好了洗澡水，小右右迫不及待地往水里扑。王刚用脚夹住一块毛巾，给孩子搓擦全身，父子俩玩得都很开心。

　　洗澡不算什么，给孩子穿衣服王刚也很熟练。“儿子，把手向上举，手伸到袖子里，坐下，让爸爸给你穿衣服。”小右右特别听指挥，乖乖地按照爸爸的指令坐好，举起了双手，王刚给孩子穿好了衣服，还用脚撕开一个冰棍袋，把冰棍拿给孩子吃。



　　独自一个人带娃，一般身体正常的爸爸几乎都很难做到，但是无臂的王刚却练就了一身本领。孩子吃饭，喝奶怎么照顾？王刚告诉记者，因为家里经济困难，早就给孩子断奶了，现在基本吃的都是跟他一样的大人饭菜，有时他给孩子单独蒸个鸡蛋糕，然后用脚趾一勺一勺地喂儿子。

无臂爸爸“抱”儿子溜达

　　夏天，王刚经常赤裸着上身，虽然两个手臂的位置光秃秃空荡荡的，但是他没有穿长袖衣服遮掩自己的残疾，相反他很喜欢将背带跨在双肩上，用肚兜“抱着”儿子四处溜达。



　　“这些吃饭、穿衣、抱孩子等平常的小事，对一个有手的人来说非常简单，但是对于用脚代替手的人来说还是很难的，尤其是在刚开始阶段。”和王刚同村的邻居说，王刚练习用脚做事，非常有毅力。黑天白夜，经过无数次练习，甚至偷偷躲起来大哭，王刚终于渐渐练会了用脚代替双手。

想要做最努力的爸爸

　　如今，王刚父母已经过世，他还有一个姐姐。“我弟弟一个人生活挺不易，我出嫁的地方离他也比较远，平时照顾不上，弟弟怕给我添麻烦，也不联系我。”王刚的姐姐告诉记者。



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　　王刚也曾努力尝试去找工作，不过屡屡碰壁。“我不可能这一辈子都靠别人的帮助来生活，如果可以，我想买两头牛，一边看孩子一边放牛，慢慢地把我和儿子的生活经营起来。”

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　　王刚说，自己不是最好的爸爸，但想成为最努力的爸爸，给孩子做一个榜样。









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